feat: add PostgreSQL database with Prisma ORM

Phase 1 - Step 2: PostgreSQL Setup

**Infrastructure:**
- Add PostgreSQL 15 Alpine container to docker-compose.yml
- Configure persistent volume for database data
- Update backend Dockerfile with OpenSSL for Prisma compatibility

**Database Schema (Prisma):**
- 6 tables: users, events, chat_rooms, messages, matches, ratings
- Foreign key relationships and cascading deletes
- Performance indexes on frequently queried columns
- Unique constraints for data integrity

**Prisma Setup:**
- Prisma Client for database queries
- Migration system with initial migration
- Seed script with 4 test events and chat rooms
- Database connection utility with singleton pattern

**API Implementation:**
- GET /api/events - List all events (with filtering and sorting)
- GET /api/events/:id - Get single event with relations
- Database connection test on server startup
- Graceful database disconnect on shutdown

**Seed Data:**
- Warsaw Dance Festival 2025
- Swing Camp Barcelona 2025
- Blues Week Herräng 2025
- Krakow Swing Connection 2025

**Testing:**
- Database connection verified ✅
- API endpoints returning data from PostgreSQL ✅
- Migrations applied successfully ✅

All systems operational 🚀

docker-compose.yml

@@ -43,4 +43,23 @@ services:
       - NODE_ENV=development
       - PORT=3000
       - CORS_ORIGIN=http://localhost:8080
+      - DATABASE_URL=postgresql://spotlightcam:spotlightcam123@db:5432/spotlightcam
+    depends_on:
+      - db
     restart: unless-stopped
+
+  db:
+    image: postgres:15-alpine
+    container_name: spotlightcam-db
+    environment:
+      - POSTGRES_USER=spotlightcam
+      - POSTGRES_PASSWORD=spotlightcam123
+      - POSTGRES_DB=spotlightcam
+    volumes:
+      - postgres_data:/var/lib/postgresql/data
+    ports:
+      - "5432:5432"
+    restart: unless-stopped
+
+volumes:
+  postgres_data: