feat(recordings): only recorder can accept/reject suggestions in MVP

Backend changes:
- Restrict suggestion status updates to recorder only
- Dancers can now only view who is assigned to record them
- Return 403 error if non-recorder tries to update status

Frontend changes:
- Remove Accept/Reject buttons from dancer view (TO_BE_RECORDED)
- Add "Pending" status badge with clock icon for pending suggestions
- Keep Accept/Reject buttons for recorder view (TO_RECORD)
- Dancers see only status badge and optional chat button

UX flow:
- Dancer sees: "Recording you: @username [Pending]"
- Recorder sees: "You record: @username [Accept] [Reject]"
- Only recorder's action creates the Match

backend/src/routes/events.js

@@ -1249,14 +1249,14 @@ router.put('/:slug/match-suggestions/:suggestionId/status', authenticate, async
       });
     }
 
-    // Check authorization: only dancer or recorder can update status
-    const isDancer = suggestion.heat.userId === userId;
+    // Check authorization: only recorder can update status (MVP decision)
+    // Dancer can only view who is assigned to record them
     const isRecorder = suggestion.recorderId === userId;
 
-    if (!isDancer && !isRecorder) {
+    if (!isRecorder) {
       return res.status(403).json({
         success: false,
-        error: 'You are not authorized to update this suggestion',
+        error: 'Only the assigned recorder can accept or reject this suggestion',
       });
     }
 

frontend/src/components/recordings/RecordingTab.jsx

@@ -291,6 +291,13 @@ const SuggestionCard = ({ suggestion, type, onAccept, onReject, navigate }) => {
   // Status badge
   const getStatusBadge = () => {
     switch (status) {
+      case SUGGESTION_STATUS.PENDING:
+        return (
+          <span className="inline-flex items-center gap-1 px-2 py-0.5 text-xs font-medium bg-blue-100 text-blue-800 rounded">
+            <Clock className="w-3 h-3" />
+            Pending
+          </span>
+        );
       case SUGGESTION_STATUS.ACCEPTED:
         return (
           <span className="inline-flex items-center gap-1 px-2 py-0.5 text-xs font-medium bg-green-100 text-green-800 rounded">
@@ -359,7 +366,23 @@ const SuggestionCard = ({ suggestion, type, onAccept, onReject, navigate }) => {
       </div>
 
       <div className="flex items-center gap-2">
-        {status === SUGGESTION_STATUS.PENDING ? (
+        {/* Dancers (TO_BE_RECORDED) can only view status, not update it */}
+        {type === SUGGESTION_TYPE.TO_BE_RECORDED ? (
+          <>
+            {getStatusBadge()}
+            {status === SUGGESTION_STATUS.ACCEPTED && match?.slug && (
+              <button
+                onClick={() => navigate(`/matches/${match.slug}/chat`)}
+                className="p-2 text-primary-600 hover:bg-primary-50 rounded-md transition-colors"
+                title="Open Chat"
+              >
+                <MessageCircle className="w-5 h-5" />
+              </button>
+            )}
+          </>
+        ) : (
+          /* Recorders (TO_RECORD) can accept/reject */
+          status === SUGGESTION_STATUS.PENDING ? (
             <>
               <button
                 onClick={onAccept}
@@ -389,6 +412,7 @@ const SuggestionCard = ({ suggestion, type, onAccept, onReject, navigate }) => {
                 </button>
               )}
             </>
+          )
         )}
       </div>
     </div>